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Aparigraha-inspired rituals to add to your Summer Practices

As the sun reaches its zenith and the temperatures soar, we find ourselves immersed in the vibrant energy of summer, which aligns with the Ayurvedic season of Pitta. In Ayurveda, Pitta represents the fiery and transformative energy within us. To harmonize with this dynamic season, we can incorporate the principle of Aparigraha into our wellness rituals. 

Aparigraha, a Sanskrit term, encourages non-attachment and simplicity, guiding us to let go of the excess and embrace the simple beauties found in the present moment. Combining the energies of Pitta and how to infuse the essence of Aparigraha can help us find balance and bliss in our day-to-day routines and rituals.

Aparigraha is one of the five Yamas, or ethical guidelines, found in the 8 Limbs of Yoga by Patanjali. It is often translated as "non-possessiveness" or "non-grasping", Aparigraha encourages us to cultivate a sense of detachment from material possessions and desires. By embracing the principles of Aparigraha, we can reduce stress, increase mindfulness, and live a more fulfilling life.

Here are some practical ways to incorporate Aparigraha into your daily rituals during Pitta season:

  1. Streamline Your Space: Decluttering your living and working spaces not only creates a sense of calm, but also allows energy to flow freely. Release items you no longer need, keeping only what brings you joy and serves a purpose. A simplified environment enhances clarity and supports a peaceful mindset.

  2. Mindful Consumption: Practice mindful eating by choosing foods that pacify Pitta's fiery energy. Opt for cooling and hydrating foods such as fresh fruits, leafy greens, and cooling herbs like mint and coriander. Avoid excessive spicy, oily, and processed foods that may aggravate Pitta. This mindful approach to nourishment encourages a balanced digestive fire and helps maintain vitality.

  3. Cultivate a Gratitude Practice: Aparigraha invites us to appreciate and be content with what we have. Start or end your day by reflecting on three things you are grateful for. This practice shifts your focus to the abundance in your life and cultivates a positive mindset.

  4. Embrace Simplicity in Self-Care: Choose natural, minimalistic skincare and beauty products that align with the principles of Aparigraha. Look for ingredients that are gentle, nourishing, and free from harsh chemicals. Incorporate practices like oil massage (abhyanga) using cooling oils such as coconut or rose, and take time for soothing activities; such as gentle yoga, meditation, or leisurely walks in nature.

  5. Let Go of Excessive Busyness: Pitta season can drive us to be hyper-focused and goal-oriented. While productivity is essential, it's equally important to balance it with rest and relaxation. Allow yourself moments of stillness, unplugged from technology, to recharge and rejuvenate. Consider minimizing your social media and technology use, and spending more time in nature or engaging in creative pursuits. Prioritize activities that bring you joy and help you unwind, such as reading a book, listening to music, or spending quality time with loved ones.

By embracing the themes related to Aparigraha, we create space for growth, contentment, and a deeper connection with ourselves and the world around us.  

Let us know in the comments how you incorporate the energies of Pitta season and the principles of Aparigraha, in your daily rituals.

Book your Nectar Experience Summer package to elevate and share your practices with us here on Bowen Island in beautiful British Columbia. Book your 2-Night Nectar Yoga Experience package here

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Acknowledgement and thanks to the contributing writers for the resources of this publication from Sejal Shah via The Art of Living and Scott Blossom via YogaJournal.

As always, sending gratitude to our community near and far, both for taking the time to explore our blog and for walking the path to your best self - we hope this resonated and aided you in finding peace and balance within.

If you feel called to share your feelings and practices surrounding the practice of Aparigraha, please do so in the comments below or send us a message via email.

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Brahmacharya Practices to Adopt this Summer

As we move into the Ayurvedic season of Pitta, it's important to consider how we can stay balanced during the heat of summer and protect our energy. One way to do this is by practicing Brahmacharya, one of the five Yamas of Yoga. Brahmacharya is often translated as celibacy or sexual restraint, but it also encompasses the proper use of energy in all areas of our lives.

In Ayurveda, Brahmacharya is seen as a way to conserve our vital life force, or "prana," which is essential for physical, mental, and spiritual health. By preserving our energy, we can live a more balanced and fulfilling life, free from anxiety, stress, and burnout.

The word "Brahmacharya" is derived from two Sanskrit words: "Brahma," meaning the absolute or divine, and "charya," meaning behaviour or conduct. Therefore, Brahmacharya is often interpreted as the "right use of energy." 

Practicing Brahmacharya involves cultivating self-discipline, self-control, and mindfulness. This includes our relationships, work, hobbies, and daily habits. It involves being mindful of our thoughts, words, and actions and making choices that align with our highest purpose.

During the Ayurveda season of Pitta, practicing Brahmacharya can be particularly beneficial. The season's heat and intensity can lead to agitation, irritability, and burnout if we don't take steps to protect our energy. By practicing Brahmacharya and incorporating daily rituals that help us stay balanced, we can conserve our energy and direct it toward our highest purpose.

One way to practice Brahmacharya during the Pitta season is to incorporate daily rituals that help us stay balanced. Here are a few ideas:

  1. Wake up early: Ayurveda recommends waking up before sunrise to align with the natural rhythms of the universe. This helps us feel more energized and focused throughout the day.

  2. Practice Yoga: Yoga is a great way to move our bodies and calm our minds. During the Pitta season, it's best to practice gentle, cooling poses like forward folds, seated twists, and gentle backbends.

  3. Meditate: Meditation is a powerful tool for conserving energy and calming our minds. You can start with just a few minutes each day and gradually increase the time as you feel more comfortable.

  4. Eat cooling foods: During the Pitta season, it's essential to eat cooling and hydrating foods. This includes fresh fruits and vegetables, coconut water, and herbal teas.

  5. Stay hydrated: Drinking plenty of water and electrolyte-rich drinks like coconut water helps us stay hydrated and cool during the heat of summer.

By incorporating these daily rituals into our lives, we can practice Brahmacharya and protect our energy during the Pitta season. When we conserve our energy and direct it towards our highest purpose, we can live a more balanced and fulfilling life.

Looking for some in-person guidance on where to start incorporating these practices? Book your 2-Night Nectar Yoga Experience package here and spend some time slowing down with us in nature.

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Acknowledgment and thanks to the contributing writers for the resources of this publication; Segal Shah via The Art of Living, Rolf Sovik via Yoga International and Esther Ekhart of Ekhart Yoga

As always, sending gratitude to our community near and far, both for taking the time to explore our blog and for walking the path to your best self - we hope this resonated and aided you in finding peace and balance within.

If you feel called to share your feelings and practices surrounding the practice of Brahmacharya, please do so in the comments below or send us a message via email.

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Plant Medicine | Trees of the Pacific Northwest

Here at Nectar Yoga, in the beautiful Pacific Northwest of Canada, we are blessed with an abundance of different flora and fauna, each lending its’ unique properties to our environments.

As part of the living yoga practice and our commitment to being stewards of the land, part of our practice of Svadhyaya, the Yama translating to self-study, is learning the wisdom of the trees. 

On our 20 acres of forested land at Nectar Yoga, we have over ten different species of trees alone. At the same time, according to provincial government documentation* from British Columbia, there are approximately 40 tree species found across the province.

The roots of trees have two jobs, to anchor the tree to the earth, and absorb nutrients and water from the soil. As humans, our “roots” and foundations are our anchor points as we grow.

We grow stronger when nurtured with healthy food, relationships, lessons, feedback, and reflections. Though our roots are weak from a lack of coping tools, unhealthy relationships, poor nutrition, etc., we struggle to grow. 

Trees, in particular, quietly offer many lessons from which humans can learn much. The David Suzuki Foundation* created a thoughtful list to inspire perspective.

  • Always grow toward the light. Live righteously and let your reach exceed your grasp.

  • Knowing the smallest scratch can have lasting effects. Be mindful of what you teach children and others who will follow you.

  • Provide refuge. Trees give food, shade and shelter. Be a source of comfort. Provide for others in need.

  • Share your fruits. Proactively reach out to bring sweetness and sustenance to others.

  • Waste nothing. Nature never wastes. Tree leaves fall and enrich the soil for new growth. Give back to the world to sustain others.

  • Be supple in the wind. You’re the product of billions of years of evolution. You may be stronger than you think. Bend like the willow to survive life’s storms.

  • Grow stronger through life experiences. Just like a tree’s rings record its journey through drought and rain, fire and calm, let life add layers of wisdom as you grow.

  • Be a team player. In The Hidden Life of Trees, Peter Wohlleben says “A tree can be only as strong as the forest that surrounds it.” Co-operate. Collaborate. Support each other.

  • Have a lasting impact. Trees provide oxygen, clean air and water, enrich the soil and support other life after they fall. Leave the world a better place.

  • Be rooted. You’re standing on the shoulders of those who came before you, including all life with which we share [lineage with].

The fascinating ancestral uses, knowledge and medicinal benefits of trees range widely. We have chosen some of our favourites to share with you based on our own day-to-day findings, as well as the notable research and studies done by forestry professionals.*

Western Red Cedar

This tree has been called the cornerstone of Northwest Coast aboriginal culture and has great spiritual significance. When felled, all parts of the tree can be used. Because of its resistance to decay, bacteria and insect invasions, a fallen cedar remains intact and salvageable for use for over 100 years. The wood is typically used for house planks, canoes, paddles, boxes and tools. 

Notice when you break apart a leaf or scratch the bark of a red cedar how aromatic it is, due to the quick release of its essential oil. This oil is a natural repellent, protecting the tree as it grows. Indigenous tribes used the bark for clothing, ropes and baskets and found various medicinal uses, mainly as an antifungal treatment. Cedar leaves could be boiled down to make salves or tinctures, to rub externally on fungal infections on the body to help cure them. The leaves were also boiled, and steam treatments from the infused cedar water effectively promoted a healthy respiratory system.

Western White Pine

This tree species typically grows in closed groupings of trees. When the trees are young, the bark is thick and smooth, though as it ages, it darkens and forms deep vertical grooves. Western white pines are commonly found in drier parts of Vancouver Island, the coastline and the southern interior.

The wood from this tree is ideal for carving because of its fine grain and unique construction projects due to its uniform texture. 

This tree had limited medicinal uses; however, the inner bark and sap were once used to treat respiratory-based illnesses through ointments and tea.

Western Larch

These beautiful trees are most popular in fall when they turn brilliant shades of gold.  They can grow up to 80 meters in height and 850 years old. They grow in clusters in valleys and lower mountain slopes in the southern Interior of BC. They grow in clusters and mixed forests, multiplying quickly as they flourish in full sunlight.  The wood from this tree is one of the strongest in Canada and is used in heavy construction projects, including many railroads across the country.

The thick bark and pattern of shedding lower limbs make this tree resistant to forest fires. 

Historically among various local tribes, for medicinal purposes, the gum extracted from under the bark was used for dressing cuts and bruises. The bark could be boiled into a tea infusion and used to treat coughs and colds. A concentrate of the sap (having been boiled down) was used to wash wounds, and the gummy sap was chewed to relieve a sore throat. Dried resin mixed with grease was also used to make cosmetics or red paint. 

Sitka Spruce 

Found all over the Nectar property and commonly found in the coastal fog belt and wetter areas, where the forest floor is thick with mosses and deer ferns. This tree is known for having wider trunks at full maturity. The largest known of its species is 93 meters tall and 5 meters wide. 

Indigenous tribes living on the coast used many parts of the Sitka spruce. From their roots, they created watertight baskets and hats, ropes, fishing lines, and twine for sewing.  Eating the inner bark or young tree shoots as a source of Vitamin C  The resin has many uses, including chewing gum, and was traditionally used for caulking canoes. The resin is a diuretic (which expels excess sodium from the body) and an antiseptic (which cleans); thus was used for skin irritants such as burns, wounds, infections, and sores. The inner bark was also consumed and used to treat colds, sore throats, and toothaches.

The wood from this tree is valuable, as it is light, soft, and flexible, yet solid and durable. It also contains impressive acoustic properties, making it ideal for building instruments such as pianos, guitars and violins. 

Douglas Fir

There are two varieties of this tree, coastal and interior. Respectively, they are found in their namesakes' areas of the province. The Interior variety grows in various habitats, including wetlands and open forests. The Coastal type grows well alongside western redcedar, grand firs and hemlocks, with forest floors abundant in sword fern supporting them. Like the Western White Pine, the bark becomes dark with age and deeply grooved with ridges.

The wood from Douglas fir is dense and durable, making it highly valuable to exported lumber since the 18th century. Indigenous tribes in the southern parts of BC used the boughs for handles and fishing hooks and covered the floors of lodges and sweat lodges. The limbs were also commonly used for cooking fires. 

The resin from the trunk has antiseptic properties and can be used for various skin ailments, including cuts, scrapes, burns, and others. The resin can also be chewed like gum and used to treat cold symptoms like a sore throat or cough. Twigs and shoots are also known to have medicinal properties.

Douglas-firs serve more purposes than just standing as a Christmas tree. A historical medicinal use is evergreen tree tip tea. The tea has a citrus-pine flavour and is extremely hydrating and revitalizing. This tea is an excellent source of vitamin C, and for the best flavour, Douglas-fir tips should be harvested in the springtime.

Depending where you are in the world, some of the trees we mentioned may or may not be familiar. Our intention behind sharing this post is to inspire our community to learn more about the trees in their local areas. We encourage you to find out what natural healing properties and amenities have been surrounding you that you have never noticed, and perhaps gain a deeper appreciation for what nature offers us.

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Acknowledgment and thanks to the contributing resources of this publication,

As always, sending gratitude to our community near and far, both for taking the time to explore our blog and for walking the path to your best self - we hope this resonated and aids you in finding peace and balance within.

If you feel called to share your feelings and practices surrounding the recent seasonal shift, please do so in the comments below or send us a message via email.

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Satya Practices for Pitta Energies

If you are familiar with general Ayurdeva practices and the three main doshas, you already know that we are on the cusp of moving from Kapha to settling into Pitta season.

If you want to learn some of the fundamentals of the doshas, we cover that in “The Three Doshas Defined.

As we retune our inner rhythm to the energies surrounding our own and the seasonal Pitta dosha this calendar month, we explore the principles surrounding the Yama, Satya.

Are you curious about the Raja yoga system and more details about the Yamas and Niyamas? We outline everything in our blog post, “Overview of the Raja Yoga System.

Satya is living in a way that aligns with your highest truth. The principles surrounding Satya revolve around being honest with yourself and others. Meaning your words and actions abstain from judgment, ensuring you consistently speak and act with conscious intention. 

This includes being realistic with your expectations of yourself, others, situations and events that our ego can influence. 

One way to practice Satya, is simply by pausing to reflect in situations or conversations, particularly ones that involve many emotions. Examples include disagreements with loved ones or instances requiring last-minute changes. Reflecting before responding, rather than reacting, allows your words and actions to stem from your heart and mind rather than from your ego. 

A year-round practice we encourage is to look to nature for cues to sync your inner-rhythms with the energies of the season. With the yin energy of winter behind us, naturally, we have begun to feel more motivated to quicken our pace, plant our seeds of intention and make plans to achieve our desires and manifestations. 

This is where the practice of Satya can act as a guide in calibrating with the season and its’ themes. Being honest with ourselves regarding our desires, boundaries, and capabilities allows us to move through the world, walking our best path and bringing our dreams to fruition. 

Pitta dosha is ruled by the elements of Fire and Water, energies that influence our actions and emotions (respectively). Think humidity; this dosha’s qualities are oily, hot, light and fluid. Remembering these distinctions as you adjust your daily rituals will allow you to continue walking your best life path.

FIRE ELEMENT:

When balanced within us, we feel energized, motivated and determined. Our Agni (fire) fuels us forward when we purposely stoke it in healthy ways. This leads to staying consistent in our goal-setting, making achievable plans to attain them, and making any adjustments to our daily routines to stay motivated overall.

WATER ELEMENT:

Spending time doing things we love that stimulate our emotions and empathy helps maintain an inner equilibrium of this element’s characteristics. When supported, we can move about the world with compassion and an open heart, optimizing our relationships and daily opportunities.

With the help of some exceptional resources*, we have compiled some effective practices and diet guidelines to allow you to transition into this new season with grace and continue to thrive.

PRACTICES FOR PITTA SEASON

  • Try a restorative or yin yoga practice

  • After a shower, apply a thin layer of coconut oil to your skin

  • Visit a body of water (or a local pool) and go swimming - revel in the cool sensations and how you feel immersed in this element

  • Go for a walk at dawn or dusk; elevate this practice by adding moments of earthing (removing your shoes and socks, connecting your bare soles to the ground)

  • Turn off electronics, such as your phone and the television, an hour prior to bedtime and wait an hour after rising before turning them back on

NOURISHMENT FOR PITTA SEASON

  • Avoid or practice moderation foods that are sour, spicy and oily, as well as coffee and alcohol, particularly if your skin is sensitive

  • Add flavours of sweet, bitter and astringent to your diet

  • Incorporate foods such as fresh leafy greens, ripened sweet fruits, minty yogurts and cooked grains into your meals

  • Add citrus to your water and make sure to stay hydrated all day long

Sources Cited:
Acknowledgment and thanks to the contributing resources of this publication, Erin Casperson via Kripalu.org, Debra Silverman and Rasa Ayurveda

As always, sending gratitude to our community near and far, both for taking the time to explore our blog and for walking the path to your best self - we hope this resonated and aids you in finding peace and balance within.

If you feel called to share your feelings and practices surrounding the recent seasonal shift, please do so in the comments below or send us a message via email.

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Dinācharya For Deeper Connection

Have you heard of “dinācharya” before?

It is the Ayurvedic term for a daily regimen that is followed to support the maintenance of a healthy life. There is also the term and practice of “rutucharyā”, which is the Ayurvedic word to encompass our seasonally-influenced rituals for optimal wellness. More than likely, you have put it into practice in various forms over the span of your life.

Around this time of year, we are seeing the concept and various themes of romantic love all around, as Valentine's Day approaches. With this heavy push of certain ideals upon us (particularly in the Western world), this is also an invitation to dive-in deeper, and reflect on how we love and respect ourselves through a consistent dinācharya.

The energies of this month can be harnessed to examine and reflect on your deepest love connections, starting with your relationship with yourself and what commitments you are upholding to ultimately walk your best path.

In this post we will delve into the benefits of dinācharya and what they can include. And as mentioned above, perhaps you already have a version of one or more of these rituals, or you already have a daily wellness practice (even if on an off-and-on basis). May this serve as a reminder or encouragement for each of us to journey into our own versions of dinācharya, apply it in our lives and ultimately reap the most benefits from it.

*This article is inspired by a recent course led by Jenna Furnari and some of her specific references. Along with cited sources, you can find a glossary below with Ayurvedic and other less-common terms that are included throughout this article.

Under the teachings of Ayurveda, establishing a physical routine for the body can help to create balance beyond the physical, and extends all the way to seek an internal balance relating to finding your mental and spiritual alignment, as well as your own unique energetic dosha. Learn what your dosha is here. The many benefits of following closely to a daily rhythm include both cultivating and maintaining a seasonally-regulated Agni), the domino impact being a healthy self-esteem, general vitality, and overall longevity - to name just a few. Integrating the daily regimen of dinācharya supports an overall grounded quality within, even while life continues to move through constant transitions.

Below is an introduction to a few steps you can take to begin bringing the practices of daily Ayurveda into your life through dinācharya, presented below, specifically as a morning ritual.

*As with most authentic wellness practices, this is not a one-size-fits-all regime. It’s important to seek additional resources and support (from trusted and recognized sources), along with getting medical clearance if relevant to your specific context, to compile your own unique version of what is outlined below.

This morning routine sets the tone and ample opportunity to maximize the potential of the rest of your day.

Tools for Dinācharya

  • Tongue Scraper

  • Sesame and/or Coconut oil

  • Neti Pot

  • Nasya Oil

Morning Dinācharya

  • Rise before the sun

  • Splash cool water on your face

  • Drink warm lemon water

  • Visit the toilet

  • Scrape your tongue

  • Oil pulling *Learn why and how to do this

  • Rinse with a Neti pot

  • Follow up with Nasya oil nasal massage

  • Abhyanga with coconut or sesame oil

*Benefits of daily massage include bestowing good health and nourishment to the body, which slows down the aging process and supports restful sleep.

Glossary of Terms :

Agni: Our internal, biological fire that aids our ability to digest, absorb and assimilate the food that we eat, the experiences we have and the emotions that occur within. This transformation also takes place with the sensory impressions that come our way.

Abhyanga: A self-given body massage

Āyurveda: This system of medicine is translated as the science of life, originating from India.

Dinācharya: A daily regimen followed to support the maintenance of a healthy life.

Imbolc : The halfway point between Winter Solstice and Spring Equinox/Ostara).

Kriyas: Specific sets of exercises, breathing techniques and sound mantras practiced to unlock energy channels or chakras in the body with intention.

Nasya: A method of administering herbal oil through the nostrils as a therapy for one of the five major senses.

Neti: A body cleansing technique used for nasal irrigation and cleansing of nasal membranes. This simple therapy has many benefits for the both the body and the mind.

Sources Cited:
Acknowledgment and thanks to the contributing resources of this publication, Jenna Furnari for her supplied content, and inspiring this entire article, and Aruna Bakhru via literature included in “Nutrition and Integrative Medicine: A Primer for Clinicians.”

Gratitude to our community near and far, both for taking the time to explore our blog and for walking the path to your best self - we hope this resonated and aids you in finding balance within.

Tell us in the comments what mornings rituals you look forward to most.

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Winter Dream Work + DIY Dream Pillow

As we step into a new year, in the Northern Hemisphere, we are held in the yin energy of the winter months alongside the in-between Ayurvedic seasons of Vata and Kapha.

During the day, as we move through the cold months, you may notice a gradual and incremental return to more vibrancy and drive within yourself. The upcoming Kapha season (Kapha season lasts from the second half of winter through spring), is the time to go deeper into any exercise program with specific attention placed on movement and a time to solidify your commitments to yourself and your plans for the near future.

However, in the dream world, there is a juxtaposition to these daylight hour natural motivations forward.

You may notice that your dreams have been revisiting issues in your past. During these natural outer-world shifts, your time in the dream world is susceptible to revolve around very old memories, both desired and undesirable, often playing out to recreate new scenarios.

Take notice of how you feel when you awaken, reflect on what your dream may be asking you to pay attention to or hold space for. Consider what the lessons may be from the dream, and if it is asking you to make a choice or step into action, then reflect if you’re ready.

What matters with dreams is how you relate with them. What are you learning? Is it asking you to show up in a new or renewed way?

A meditative craft that can be supportive in your dream work is making a Dream Pillow.

You can typically create a dream pillow with materials that you already keep in your home.

What you’ll need:

  • A small muslin or cotton drawstring bag

  • Favourite calming herbs (dried)

Crafting the dream pillow itself is a mindful exercise on its own that offers its own calming effects. If you’re using multiple herbs, pour them into a bowl and gently mix them with a small spoon or your hands. Breathe in the smells that waft around you as you set your intentions for what you desire to manifest in your dream work.

Use a spoon or small scoop to pour the herbs into your drawstring bag, secure it tightly, and place it under your sleeping pillow (or beside your bed).

The ritual of making a dream pillow can be done as often as you like, using different favoured and/or seasonal local herbs to tap into various energies they embody and support.

Having a calming night ritual prior to going to sleep is the best way to tap into our most profound intuitive dreamwork insights. This may include exercising your journal practices (specifically dream journaling), a slow movement practice, using a dream pillow, or all of the above.

Whether a morning journal practice is already part of your wellness routine, to hone in on your dream work, we suggest keeping your journal next to your bed to write down the details of your dreams as soon as you rise in the morning.

If you wake up in the middle of the night from a particularly intense dream, write whatever memorable details about it before going back to sleep, as you may likely forget by morning. Documenting your dreams allows you to work through unprocessed issues in your waking life and the symbolic lessons you explore in your sleep.

Sources Cited:
Acknowledgment and thanks to the contributing resources of this publication, Rebecca Turner via Lucid World Dreaming and Irene Wolansky via Mountain Rose Herbs - a precious resource for herb ideas if you’re unsure where to start.

Gratitude to our community near and far, both for taking the time to explore our blog and for walking the path to your best self - we hope this resonated and aids you in finding balance within.

Tell us in the comments what herbs you’re inclined to add to your dream pillow this season.

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Ayurvedic + Yoga Practices For Peaceful Holidays

Often referred to as the sister of yoga and science behind it, Ayurveda principles, practices and its natural medicines can be a potent resource to root your daily wellness and routine to.

The hustle of the holiday season is upon most of us in one form or another. At Nectar Yoga, we are holding space for all of us to remember to slow down and come back to the sacred traditions (and their meaning) surrounding the upcoming holidays and their celebrations that are approaching.

As noted in last year’s holiday blog post, while these times of union and merriment are joyous occasions we look forward to, they also may involve a disruption in your routine, including less time for your usual self-care practices, and more energy being directed towards others.

When we remain rooted and mindful, the celebrations can be an especially wonderful time of the year. When we forget to approach this season with intention, our minds can whirl too quickly, and we can lose ourselves in overwhelm and chaos.

Grounding ourselves in the living yoga practices and principles of Ayurveda are the supportive limbs we can lean on. These can also guide our path so we stay present and peaceful.

*As always, consult your medical team before changing your routine or begin consuming any Ayurvedic advice. All information Nectar Yoga shares is for educational purposes only. For sources cited, scroll to the end of this post.

Merely delving into two of the 8 limbs of yoga, the Yamas and Niyamas, we find true reminders of the reason for the season, and how we can revel in it all. 

Expanding on the Niyamas of Svadhyaya and Santosha, we can stay aware of our true intentions and expectations.

Svadhyaya (self-study)

The Sanskrit translation of “Sva” means ‘self,’ or ‘ own’ with “Adhyaya”  translating to ‘lesson,’ or ‘reading,’ and while it can imply the practice of studying scriptures, it is also a practice of studying the Self.

When we listen to our ego, we often do or think things that do not align with our true values or intuition, and instead, we may find ourselves stagnant in fears, frustrations and doubts. This essentially causes our own ‘Chitta Vrittis’ (‘fluctuations of the mind’). Bringing our awareness to the way we go about our day allows us to become more aware of the things we do that harm us, and also that which brings us closer to that process of yoking with the our truest self.

Santosha (contentment)

This Niyama asks you to be aware that whatever you have in the present moment is enough. Once you can consistently practice this, happiness will find an enduring place in your life. Santosha is a practice that cannot be found, rather it will find you once you have created the space for it.

On the yoga mat this can look like acknowledging your tendency to strive to do a ‘perfect pose’ yet meeting yourself where you are, using props or making modifications without feelings of shame or disappointment, and instead, holding gratitude for that all your body does for you. Off the mat this comes in various forms of releasing assumptions or expectations surrounding someone or something, and meeting everyone and everything exactly as you find it.

Revisiting the Yamas of specifically Satya and Asteya we give ourselves permission to release our judgements, unrealistic, or unfair assumptions we may have attached to others, events, or ourselves.

Satya (truthfulness) 

Beyond the practice of “not lying,” practicing Satya is living in a way that aligns with your highest truth. It revolves around about being honest with yourself, with others, and abstaining from judgment — ensuring that you are consistent in speaking and acting with mindfulness and intention, rather than blurting out whatever fleeting thought from your mind.

Asteya (non-stealing)
This goes beyond the obvious of what theft typically is, and is more than just not taking a physical object that does not belong to you. We can factor in hoarding items as we shop for gifts, and take a pause in reminding ourselves that quality is always superior to quality, that consuming, even when it’s a gift for others, does not need to meet a certain quota of spending or number of presents bought to enjoy our holiday celebrations. And then we can go deeper still – considering the act of stealing time and energy. Time is something that reflects differently for every person, but it’s helpful to take note of what you are spending your time thinking of - does it serve you now and you in the future or is it robbing you of the gifts of the present? Similarly, do you engage in thoughtless actions that may have a undesired “time impact” on others?

In Ayurveda one of the most efficient ways to remain well is to maintain a daily routine, or dinacharya. These are daily activities that are practiced regularly and thus contribute to maintaining overall vitality.

These rituals typically fall under (yet are not limited to) the categories surrounding eating well, having a consistent (and flexible) movement practice, meditation practices, journaling sessions, seasonal oil massages, and sufficient sleeping routines.

Some details to keep in mind surrounding an optimal dinacharya this month in particular include:

Eating early. Ayurveda teaches that lunch should be the biggest meal of the day. The digestive fire, our Agni, is hottest at high noon, mirroring Mother Nature’s midday heat of the sun. This can be difficult to cater to as most seasonal gatherings tend to be scheduled in the evenings. Try to eat as early in the evening as possible, and avoid over-indulging in the waning evening hours. If you’re hosting a gathering, consider making it a brunch event or late-afternoon meal. Eat your heavier foods first and lighter foods last.

Stay moving. During the holiday season, stay consistent with your movement practices. Many of us are overscheduled, overworked, and overtired during the holiday season, our Asana yoga practice or other preferred movement practices will supports us in recalibrating to a calm, stable energy; properly functioning digestion; and lending patience to handle your  busy schedule and unforeseen hiccups. Schedule time for yoga at home or going to an in-person class, put as much importance in this practice as you do for holiday shopping and the other seasonal items on your to-do list. Whenever possible, take a 15- to 30-minute walk after big meals.

Hydrate with care. Drink a glass of warm water in the morning to stimulate your digestion. If you’re appetite is lacking from recent over-indulging the night before, sip on ginger tea until your appetite returns. Ginger is known for its warming, digestive, and detoxifying properties.

Meditate. Remove any timeframe expectations. 5-10 minutes a day can be more potent that you think. Setting aside time each day to intentionally experience silence, connect with yourself, and let go of what needs release creates space to receive the upcoming joys of the season. 

When it comes to attending the celebrations of the season, keep coming back to your inner awareness and intuition. 

It’s common (and understandable) to want to attend every party and see everyone who is in town visiting, the various options of people to see and places to go that comes with the holidays can feel like a beautifully laid-out buffet with that similar appeals to sample everything. 

Over-indulging in parties (and the array of foods they typically include) generally result in feeling tired or unwell. Our intuition often reminds us that the best approach is to select what you really enjoy and leave the rest to try next time; we fare better when we honour our inner wisdom.

When it comes to invitations for holiday events, be intentional with who you say yes to, and be liberal with grateful declines. Gift yourself the time and space of the presence of people and experiences that fully nourish you.

Some tools to bring along to the events you do attend:
*via Dr. Marlynn Wei, M.D., J.D.

Practice active listening. It’s easy to tune out during holiday gatherings, but try being attentive by using active listening. Try to understand the complete message that people are conveying—not just through their words, but also through their actions as well as body language. It’s a rewarding practice when we notice just how much more we can observe and hear. [If you’re feeling over-stimulated, give yourself permission to excuse yourself and take a moment to recalibrate with some favourite affirmations, or a quick breathwork practice.]

Active listening works best when distractions are minimized, there is much value in putting away the smartphone, turning off the TV, and even turning down the music so that you can hear what people are saying via their whole beings.

Be open to the emotions of others. By being attentive and receptive to the people around us, we are invited to increase our ability to connect. Observe how people are feeling during the holidays, and be open to communication of those feelings.

Be open to a range of emotions in yourself. Holidays can bring up a whole host of different emotions—and not all of them happy or celebratory. For many, the holidays can be reminders of loss, grief or feelings of loneliness. If you experience these difficult feelings, especially when loved ones are absent, allow yourself to make space and acknowledge whatever emotions come up for you rather than try to get rid of them. Healing comes through acceptance.

Let go of old habits or patterns that might be holding you back. Holidays come with traditions and memories but, sometimes, old patterns can perpetuate negativity. It’s easy to fall into familiar patterns. When knee-jerk reactions surface, notice them, and try to be curious about what is happening, rather than being stuck in thoughts or feelings you might be carrying from the past. This opens the possibility of a new experience in your interactions and can reduce feelings like frustration, overwhelm, or boredom for you.

Expand how you communicate care. The holidays often means gift-giving for many cultures, though there are many other ways of showing that you care. Explore how you show your care by asking yourself questions before buying something: What are you trying to communicate through a gift? Are there additional ways to show that feeling or care, such as spending quality time, expressing how you feel about them directly, or doing something nice and supportive?

Let go of judgment—both for yourself and others. Conflict with family and friends during the holidays can lead to judgment and self-criticism. Whether you catch yourself feeling resentful or feeling disappointed, notice when you’re making judgments. Take a step back and try to loosen those feelings of being “bad,” “wrong,” or “inadequate.” Even if it’s hard to let go of criticism completely, simply notice when it is happening and let those thoughts be without entangling yourself in them to give yourself perspective and insight that can ultimately shift you.

Balance the “shoulds” with awareness of your own needs. Holiday obligations can be important but be sure to balance them with awareness of your own needs. Operating on obligations alone, and trying to please everyone’s expectations can lead to resentment and burnout. Rather than focus solely on planning the perfect dinner or finding the perfect gift, observe how these expectations affect you. It may not always be realistic to approach this perfectly, but any small step can have a positive impact.

Practice self-compassion. During a busy holiday season, don’t forget to take care of yourself, and be kind to yourself. Commit to regular sleep and exercise, and take time to do relaxing or fun things so that you can recharge. Taking care of yourself allows you to be able to be more attentive and calmer when you’re with others during the holidays. You may even find that when you take care of yourself, you experience the gift of the season in a fuller, more embodied way.

Additional wellness practices to consider this month

The Herb Guduchi

The herb guduchi** is known in Ayurvedic medicine for the power to detoxify, rejuvenate, boost immunity, and more.

In Sanskrit, Guduchi translates to “that which protects the body from diseases” and it helps to rebalance your energy and wellbeing. Guduchi is used to reduce stress, calm the mind, and to promote clear thinking. It’s also been used to":

  • Support joint health

  • Reduce stress

  • To increase antioxidants

  • Support the immune system

  • Fight inflammation

**As always, consult your medical team before changing your routine or begin consuming any Ayurvedic advice. All information Nectar Yoga shares is for educational purposes only.

Self-massage with oils

This relaxing practice can be done year-round, however if it’s something new for you, it may be worth trying this month especially. Using warm oil for body massage helps maintain a healthy complexion, relieve muscle tension, promote good sleep, and cleanse excess toxins from the skin.

How and when to do a warm oil massage:

This is best done before taking your morning or evening shower. Choose your preferred oil (it’s often suggested to use coconut, apricot, or sunflower). You can warm the oil by submerging the jar or bottle in warm water, or use at room temperature if you prefer. Begin at the feet, applying the oil with your fingers, making circular motions around the joints. Then, make vertical strokes up your legs and abdomen. Allow the oil to sit for about 15 minutes before showering.

Many of us neglect self-care practices during the holidays, but incorporating these ancient practices as part of your busy day may help soothe overworked nervous systems.

Take care of your heart

Ayurveda claims that the human heart has two parts: the physical heart and the emotional heart, particularly during the holiday season, our emotional hearts often carry an unnecessary, heavy burden.

A tired emotional heart can negatively impact us overall, though specifically, hormonal imbalance, energy, and overall wellbeing.

Release the burdens on your heart with a gratitude practice each morning, this can be done mentally or through various forms of journaling styles.

Sources Cited:
Acknowledgement and thanks to the contributing resources of this publication, Erin Casperson via Kripalu Centre for Yoga + Health, Dr. Taz Bhati, M.D., Dr. Marlynn Wei, M.D., J.D., and Chara Caruthers

Gratitude to our community near and far, both for taking the time to explore our blog and for walking the path to your best self - we hope this resonated and aids you in finding balance within.

Let us know in the comments your favorite traditions to celebrate the holidays over the coming weeks!

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The Art of Porch Sitting

The art of porch sitting not only allows us to notice smaller details of the seasonal shifts, but to experience the benefits of being outdoors, enveloped in nature while the comforts of our home space are close by, generally offering additional feelings of ease + resting.

Whether you consider yourself the ‘outdoorsy’ type or tend to prefer time indoors, this practice can be easy to adopt for all in regards to the convenient access as well as the option to add some of your typical indoor comforts to your outdoor space.

Not all of us have access to a porch or deck attached to our homes, luckily we can adapt and incorporate the same details of porch sitting to our yards or local parks.

Typically this practice is one that is consciously or subconsciously implemented during the warmer months, however, exploring it as we shift into a cooler season (in the northern hemisphere) is something to be considered.

The shift from Pitta to Vata season (naturally) has many of us feeling less inclined to venture too far from our homesteads. However, we know that their are a range of benefits surrounding getting outside regularly, which is where the art of porch sitting can be a valuable practice to begin incorporating into your routine.

Spending time outdoors can…

  • lower blood pressure⁠

  • reduce levels of cortisol (stress hormones)⁠

  • strengthen immunity ⁠

  • relieve anxiety⁠

  • improve concentration⁠

  • improve short-term memory ⁠

  • energize the body + mind

  • improve your mood ⁠

  • strengthen sleep patterns⁠



The other piece of this practice is the opportunity it allows for you to slow down and ground into the benefits surrounding stillness.

Western society in particular has put ‘rinse + grind’ on a pedestal and equated success with being busy. We compare idle resting time to laziness and rest as something to be earned; this in fact is not the case.

The ‘rest + digest’ portion of your brain, known as the parasympathetic nervous system, needs consistent activation in order for your body to stay healthy. When the PSNS is activated, it slows our heart and breathing rates, lowers blood pressure and promotes digestion. Our body enters a state of relaxation, which allows the opportunity for recovery (including physical + mental digestion). Overall the more time we spend in this state, the healthier we are.

Your day is full of both resting moments + activities and that could be brought outside. When we take to porch sitting, we combine varying levels of the benefits of being outdoors as well as making a new space for potentially more time spent with our PSNS active, a heavy dose of nourishment for all areas of the body.

⁠Bundle up and spend time on your porch at consistent times, perhaps for 20 minutes each morning with a warm beverage, or in the evening before bed. If it feels uncomfortable at first, lean into it. Take everyday activities you normally do inside, and move them to the porch. ⁠Making a snack for yourself? Enjoy it on the porch. ⁠⁠Catching up with someone on the phone? Take your conversation outside! ⁠⁠Read your book on the porch or plan for your week with a calendar/notebook. Bring your meal prepping, such as chopping vegetables or kneading bread out to the porch with you.

Practicing the age-old tradition of porch sitting is a way to invite more overall health benefits into your day while embracing the simple moments + spending more time soaking in the natural energies and wisdom of nature around us.

Incorporate appealing sensory options to your porch space to personalize it and make it wholly welcoming to you.

This may include:

  • textiles (pillows, blankets, large sweaters, a rug, a door mat)

  • lighting (candles, string lights, sconces,)

  • sacred objects (crystals, books, tarot or affirmation cards)

  • comfortable seating (a new floor pillow, bench, rocking chair)

  • added flora (a potted plant, flowers, a seasonal wreathe)

Use your journal to note your time porch sitting and any thoughts that come up. This is a good way to keep track of how this practice is making you feel over time — and help you create the additional ritual (of journaling) that supports your overall health. Notice your favorite plants as well as surrounding flora; how do they shift with the seasons? What wisdom do they offer that can translate over to the human world and the habits we can mimic from nature during different seasons.

Gratitude to our community near and far, both for taking the time to explore our blog and for walking the path to your best self - we hope this resonated and aids you in finding balance within.

Let us know in the comments your thoughts around this tradition - do you practice it already?

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